Canadian Genealogy · Chinese Genealogy

Finding Grandfather

Today’s post was written by Dr. Judy Chew, Faculty Emerita, University of Calgary.

The Story Behind the Story

For decades, a slightly chipped, glass-frame held a black and white professional photograph of an older Chinese woman at our home. With each move, the frame was neatly centered on the same walnut dresser in the master bedroom. Dressed in plain black garb, with jet-black hair pulled back in a tight bun, the woman posed with a hand on each arm of the chair. Below her knee, there were loose, light-coloured socks. Her legs were neatly crossed over each ankle. Her gaze at the camera was solemn and without a hint of a smile.

Digital picture taken by Judy Chew of undated original professional photograph of LAI Quey Hai (1897 – 1962), the wife of Lee Hee Tun. The original picture was taken in China, circa 1950’s perhaps as my grandmother Lai passed away in 1962.

One day, my mother told me that this woman was her mother who had lived in China until her passing in 1962. I was too young to ask questions about my grandmother. Like many Chinese families I knew, we did not talk about those who died. We did not ask about how their death came about. I learned from what was not said or when I accidentally asked. To be wise was to err on the side of silence. Looking back, a traditional Chinese code permeated our home. As a child, the understanding was to honor and defer to my parents. This translated to: don’t ask personal questions about the dead; don’t ask why a question cannot be answered; don’t be disrespectful with more questions. Years went by. During a visit home from graduate school, I ventured to ask about the forbidden territory – our ancestral history. From time to time, the only information I heard was one static line, that my grandfather died, possibly poor and alone in Montreal. But on this day, my mother and I wrote down the names, dates of birth and death of her parents. Words cannot capture the elation that overcame me. This would be the first and last time.

During childhood years, I possessed a fascination about growing up in Canada as a Chinese kid. Chinese customs, superstitions, and, the meaning beneath cultural values, rules, and conflicts intrigued me at a very rudimentary level.

I have the high school essay I wrote on my experience of growing up in a bi-cultural home. A rusting gold-colored safety pin holds the flimsy pages together. Perhaps, I kept the essay because of the once-in-an-academic-lifetime grade of A++. Perhaps, the essay survived the crumbling cardboard box with each move because my efforts to make sense of my cultural, ancestral past and present were of perpetual intrigue.

Who knew that the personal experiences of cross-cultural conflicts between immigrant parents and their children would shape my career interests? While I did not end up as a cultural anthropologist or heaven forbid, a marine archaeologist, after all, my chosen career as a counselling psychologist served me well for the investigative mission of ancestral search.

As a faculty member at the University of Calgary in the mid-1990’s, I discovered the Special Collections Library. It housed the microfiche and microfilm for the Registration of Chinese Immigration which included 97,000 individuals for the period, 1885 – 1949. The librarians loaned me a weighty microfiche/film machi1ne. Searching with a mild frenzy of excitement into the darkness of the night at home, I located the name of my grandfather, LEE Hee Tun. I saw his name for the first time in a government record. Exuberance and elation followed.

Over the decades, my life-long passion for learning about early Chinese immigration in Canada and the specific historical/political contexts for my grandfather and other relatives, grew exponentially. Rich connections have been forged with a handful of aging relatives. Enhancing the research include academic scholars/authors, memoirists, historians, kindred amateur genealogists like me, and those invested in ancestral research in North America and, abroad. Truth be told, the research is a labor of love.

In 2020, Dr. Lily Cho and I corresponded about her research and writing on the C.I. 9 certificates. The government’s surveillance of the Chinese immigrants was a mixed blessing. Dr. Cho provided the link to my grandfather’s C.I. 9 certificate, along with comments. For the first time, I saw the husband of my grandmother, the father of my mother, my grandfather. From that point, the story of my grandfather moved from a static narrative statement, “he died alone in Canada”.

I am gifted with pieces of government evidence that portray his active commitment to family in China. He made return visits to China. He established a sense of comradery with peers and organizations, such as the KMT, and found employment as a restauranteur in Canada. Like countless early Chinese immigrants, his life is a portrayal of dreams for his family and a better life despite the costs.

Introduction: The Story of LEE Hee Tun

Lee Hee Tun was my maternal grandfather. When he was 26 years old, he boarded the Empress of Japan which brought him from the village of I Gong Tun, China to Vancouver. He arrived at the port on 17 May 1913, along with many Chinese immigrants from a small area near the southern port of Guangzhou, in China’s Guangdong province.

Interactive map of the surrounds of the City of Guangzhou, Guangdong, China

Lee Tun paid the $500 Chinese head tax which was required by the Canadian government in its effort to limit the Chinese from settling in Canada. Sharing the common hope that North America (aka Gum Saan, or Gold Mountain) offered opportunities for a better life, my grandfather left behind the familiar faces of family and friends, culture, and country. He began life in Canada by making his way to Verwood, SK. Located on the Canadian Pacific Railway line between Viceroy and Assiniboia in southern Saskatchewan, the town once served as a grain-handling point for local farmers.

Interactive map of Verwood, SK

Lee Tun in Verwood, SK

Verwood, SK. Andrew Filer from Seattle (ex-Minneapolis), CC BY-SA 2.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0, via Wikimedia Commons.

According to an official government document from The Department of the Interior, Chinese Immigration branch, my grandfather lived in Verwood and worked in a local restaurant. See Chinese Immigration no. 9 Form for Lee Hee Tun, below. He became a restaurant keeper at the City Café.

City Café, Verwood, SK, circa 1923. Credit: Barbara Juurlink, Facebook group Verwood Saskatchewan History, 22 Nov 2025.

He likely learned about the opportunity to work in Verwood by word of mouth. He joined a handful of men, including Lee Yam Quong (age 41) and Lee Loy Bo (age 30) who had travelled from the same village of I Gong Tun in China to Verwood before my grandfather. The group of men likely roomed and socialized together in a boarding house. In doing so, they could speak their native Taishanese dialect and help each other as they faced the successes and challenges of living in an unfamiliar country. They kept alive Chinese cultural practices and customs, and recognized familiar holidays. Life together as immigrants offered a touch of home that lay oceans away.

Connections were solidified by family clans, giving the Lee men opportunities to work in groups and for each other as a part of “chain migration.”2 Together, they expanded social spheres beyond their home town of Verwood.

Saskatchewan’s growth as a province was linked to the Canadian Pacific Railway. Its construction was made possible in part through the sacrifice of many Chinese immigrants. They often sought new life in railway towns like Moose Jaw, Saskatoon, and Regina. As a part of the province’s development and growing need for services, many opened cafes, grocery stores, and hand laundries where they did all the washing and ironing.

The life of Chinese in Canada

My grandfather and other Chinese immigrants had barriers to overcome. It was common for Chinese men to come alone. Their hope was to get established and then bring their loved ones to join them in Canada. For others, the dream was to return to China with financial stability. In addition to facing loneliness and an unsure future, the men encountered racial discrimination in the form of a mandatory “head tax” of $500. This was the federal government’s anti-Chinese law. The Chinese Immigration Act, 1885 was the initial piece of Canadian legislation to exclude immigrants on the basis of ethnic origin. At that time, a tax of $50 was imposed on every Chinese person seeking to enter Canada. This measure was only temporarily effective. In 1900, the amount was increased to $100 per person and followed by another increase to $500 in 1903. With few exceptions, the head tax was a required payment upon arrival in Canada. In 1903, $500 was the equivalent of two years of wages. With the odds of being reunited with family stacked against him, my grandfather did not give up. He worked hard because he believed in a better future.

Social Connection

In her 2015 book, Cultivating Connections: The making of Chinese Prairie Canada,3 Brandon University professor Dr. Alison Marshall describes how early Chinese immigrants congregated for social and political functions across towns and provinces. Modes of transportation such as car and train made attendance at Kuomintang (KMT) gatherings possible.

C.I. 9 Photo of LEE Hee Tun

Dr. Marshall pointed out my grandfather’s KMT lapel pin in a government-issued Head Tax photograph (at right). The KMT lapel pin represented China’s National People’s Party and symbolized my grandfather’s effort to make connections and cultivate a sense of cultural belonging in Canada. Through his KMT membership, he joined fellow “sojourners” – temporary workers in Canada who intended to return to the home country. They valued the idea of a modernized China. Collectively, they also found strength to combat intense local discrimination and the Chinese Exclusion Act.

In 1925, after working in Verwood for twelve years, my grandfather made his way to Vancouver, perhaps in search of better work prospects. He lived on Pender Street in Chinatown. For the early Chinese immigrants and their families, there were sweeping global economic disruptions from the Great Depression (1929-1939) and the Second Sino-Japanese war (1937-1939). The latter later merged into the Asian theatre of the Second World War. These political events crippled transpacific communication and financial networks. Furthermore, the early Chinese immigrants in Canada were forced to live under the oppressive grip of the 1923 Chinese Exclusion Act. These disruptions had a catastrophic impact on their ability to send remittances and exchange letters with their families in China. Such unspeakable realities were endured by my grandfather and countless Chinese immigrant men in Canada.

Travels Home

LEE Hee Tun traveled back to his home country several times to visit his wife, Lai Quey Hai and children.

His daughter, Mei Hing, (my mother) was born in 1922 and son, Ming Gee was born six years later. With a spirit of unwavering commitment, my grandfather sent remittances home to China. These funds helped to further his children’s school education, to construct a spacious home, and to enhance the family’s quality of life overall.

Lee Tun in Montreal

At some point, my grandfather moved to Montreal, Quebec, where in early April 1939, he passed away. He is buried in Montreal’s Côte-des Neiges cemetery. The specific section was set up by the Chinese Catholic Mission in 1917 to provide a resting place for early Chinese immigrants.

Sadly, my grandfather died without his family. His wife and children were not able to join him in Canada. His daughter (my mother), Mei Hing, emigrated from China to Kingston, ON in the 1950’s. She married my father, Ging Gar Chew, who was a restauranteur.

Grave marker of Lee Hee Tun
Ron Lai, [Flush gravestone of Lee Hee Tun], 10 August 2008, Montreal, Quebec Canada, color photographic print; scanned to digital file by Judy Chew.

The Past Meets the Future

In June 1990, relatives from Connecticut travelled with my mother to Montreal on a road trip. My grandfather’s flush grave marker was located in Côte-des-Neiges cemetery. During the visit, my mother placed her hands on the gravestone. Hardly a word was spoken by her. The silence held years of unarticulated sadness. The silence held the pain of lost dreams about her father and family. The visit to the gravesite allowed my mother to sigh with relief. Finally, she was able to pay homage to her long-lost father in person and cherish these golden moments.

I have deep respect and am grateful for my grandfather. Even though I have never met him, the records of his return trips to China reflect the importance he placed on his Chinese roots and family. He trusted in what the future could be for them in Canada. We, his descendants, are benefactors of his resilience, strength, and determination. He will not be forgotten.

Submitted in loving memory of LEE Hee Tun by his grand-daughter, Dr. Judy Chew.

Chinese Immigration no. 9 Form for Lee Hee Tun

Lee Hee Tun travelled to China during the First World War. The below form shows that he applied for a Chinese Immigration (C.I.) no. 9 re-entry form on 24 Oct 1917. He left the next day on the CPR’s Empress of Asia, Vancouver to Hong Kong, where presumably he disembarked to travel to his home village in Guangdong. He was away for one year, nine days, returning 3 Nov 1918.

Domestic Immigrants to Canada, LEE Hee Tun © Government of Canada. Reproduced with the permission of Library and Archives Canada (2021). Source: Library and Archives Canada/Department of the Interior.

Postscript

On a note of interest, English-Chinese author and journalist, Edith Eaton (1865 – 1914), was known for her steadfast fight against racism and the unjust treatment of Chinese people. Upon her death, the Montreal Chinese community established a memorial next to her grave.4 Eaton’s tombstone is located in Montreal’s Mount Royal cemetery, which shares a sprawling green expanse with Côte-des-Neiges cemetery. Their proximity makes them walking distance neighbours. Inscribed on her stone is the saying, “Yi bu wang hua,” which means, “The righteous one does not forget China.”

About the Image

These two images of the graves of the author’s maternal grandparents were found in the photo collections of the author’s mother, Mei Hing, in Kingston, ON. They were likely taken by Mei’s brother Ming Gee in Toisan, Guangdong, China.

Image of two photos depicting the graves of the author’s maternal grandparents, circa 1990s. Photos courtesy of the family.

References

  1. Individual records are available via Collection Search at Library and Archives Canada and there is an Excel download of the register’s transcript from UBC. See Peter W. Ward and Henry Yu. “Register of Chinese Immigrants to Canada, 1886-1949.” Faculty Research and Publications: “Register of Chinese immigrants to Canada 1885-1949.xlsx,” and “Register_of_Chinese_Immigrants_description.pdf.” documents online. University of British Columbia Open Collections at https://open.library.ubc.ca/collections/facultyresearchandpublications/52383/items/1.0075988. ↩︎
  2. Alison R. Marshall, personal communication, March 18, 2026. ↩︎
  3. Alison Marshall, (2015). Cultivating connections: The making of Chinese Prairie Canada. UBC Press: Vancouver, BC, accessed 26 Jun 2026: https://www.ubcpress.ca/cultivating-connections. ↩︎
  4. Mary Chapman, (11 Apr 2021). Writing from 130 years ago shows we’re still dealing with the same anti‑Asian racism, website, The Conversation Canada, accessed 26 Jun 2026: https://theconversation.com/writing-from-130-years-ago-shows-were-still-dealing-with-the-same-anti-asian-racism-158281. ↩︎

20 thoughts on “Finding Grandfather

  1. Beautifully-written Judy. I know what you went through.
    I too am trying to find out about my maternal grandfather, as his life in Detroit, USA is still a mystery to the entire family.

    1. Greetings Kevin – Thank you for your kind comment. It is much appreciated. I wish you and family the very best in your quest for information about your maternal grandfather. Ancestral search is a heartfelt labor of love. We hold on to a sense of hope that discoveries will be made. I value the knowledge of my ancestors that has been gathered over time. Having said that, much remains unknown. Whenever I am asked to identify who I would spend time with from the past – if a wish was granted to me. Without question, my grandparents come to mind. Best wishes to you in your search. Thank you again for writing. Judy

  2. So well researched and written. A beautiful testimony to your grandfather. Thank you for sharing this story.

  3. So well written, interesting and well researched. Congratulations on tracking down so much information about your grandfather.
    A labour of love.

    1. Greetings and thank you very much for your positive and thoughtful comments. Despite the time-intensive nature of ancestral research, the results bring me a few steps closer to understanding how my ancestors’ lives were defined by values of considerable worth. These include: caring for the wellbeing of family, preserving cultural connections, and remaining resilient during times of political/personal angst and suffering.

  4. Wonderful. You have brought your grandfather’s story to life with such clarity and craft. Your love for your family, their stories and their memory is so evident in your words and the zealous detective work you did to make it so.
    A ++

    1. Hello Francis
      Your reflections on my story of Grandfather Lee are poignant and heartfelt. It is a narrative that is rooted in unwavering curiosity, abiding love, and deep gratitude. Your A++ grade for the story made me smile with appreciation and satisfaction. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! Judy

  5. What a beautiful tribute to your Grandfather! Well written and researched Judy, thank you for sharing. I too grew up as a child of newly landed Italian immigrants in Kingston, Ontario. As children my siblings and I rarely asked questions. Partially because of the ignorance of youth and partially because we didn’t want to cause pain. Intuitively we understood that our parent’s had sacrificed alot in coming to this new country. We were fortunate as the archives in the tiny Italian town my parent’s grew up in had preserved some records. Between these and the few memories shared by my folks before they passed, we’re able to piece together some history.

    1. Ciao Sandra

      Greetings and thank you very much for your reflections on my story of Grandfather Lee. I note the parallel lives we experienced in our youth. We possessed an awareness of not quite knowing how to pose potentially difficult questions to our parents. But, we were aware of the delicate nature of inquiring. With maturity, the desire and skillset for tapping into our roots comes to fruition. What timeliness!

      Your dedication and passion to learn about your family history are evident. Your travels to Italy would require considerable reflection, investigation, and financial commitment. You are an example of ancestral research in action. May you continue to reap the benefits of added clarity and enriched understanding. Thank you again for your lovely comments.
      With appreciation, Judy

  6. What a beautifully researched and deeply moving account. I was especially struck by how government records and family history transformed the narrative of “he died alone in Canada” into the story of a devoted husband and father whose sacrifices shaped generations to come. Your grandfather emerges not simply as an historical figure, but as a man of resilience, hope, and unwavering commitment to his family. Thank you for preserving his story so thoughtfully.

    1. Greetings Kevin

      Thank you kindly for your thoughtful and generous comments. I am glad you found the story of my grandfather to be informative and moving. I appreciated your description of him being a man of resilience, hope, and unwavering commitment to his family.

      May the sacrifices of our ancestors continue to enrich the lives of future generations.

      There is a famous Chinese proverb that goes like this:

      “One generation plants the trees and another gets the shade.”

      May we be grateful for the shade that has been granted to us by our ancestors and remember to plant healthy, strong trees for future generations.

      Once again, thank you for your invaluable reflections. Judy

  7. Beautifully written…thank you for sharing .
    Your words are so heartfelt as I think of my grandfather Chin who came to Canada in 1922. He came from a tiny village( Leung Tun/ Lang Cun) in Toisan , travelled by ship to Vancouver, then travelled to Saskatchewan, where he worked in Gull Lake and Tompkins for 3 years to pay off his remaining head tax loan. Perhaps they met and knew each other!
    He later worked in Alberta, before settling in 1925 Vancouver’s Chinatown . So many similar and parallel experiences… I was lucky enough to know him as I grew up. Still miss him …

    1. Dear Anita – Thank you for your kind note and for your introduction to Grandfather Chin. What fortitude he demonstrated! I can only imagine his unwavering commitment to establish a new life in Canada and what it must have been like to experience later relocations across provinces.

      Your words made me smile. I thought of the happenstance of our grandfathers meeting. Perhaps it might have been at a church function where English lessons took place, a large KMT gathering of like-minded, hope-filled individuals, or a celebration of the Lunar New Year with savory culinary delights of all-sorts, lively traditional Chinese opera music, and kindred spirits catching up through the day and into the night. How heartwarming it would be for Grandfather Lee and Grandfather Chin to share a smile and shake hands as the evening drew to a close with assurance of the next eagerly-anticipated visit!

      You were very fortunate to grow up with Grandfather Chin’s presence in your life. I trust that your heart is gifted with and comforted by the cherished memories of his endurance, strength, love, and times shared together.

      I wish you well. Once again, thank you for your comments. With appreciation, Judy

      1. Judy,
        thank you for your kind words 💕. Very likely they met as kindred spirits as grandfather also supported the KMT thru KMT bonds and a document of photo ID . My uncle found these in an old suitcase of his possessions.
        Theirs was a difficult life in hopes of a better future . Grandfather always encouraged people to exercise their right to vote , knowing the sacrifices that were made to achieve this…
        All the best to you !
        Anita

  8. Judy,
    What you wrote about your Grandfather was incredibly moving and obviously heartfelt. To think that we all have different but similar stories is humbling. I know precious little about my own Grandparents journey and struggles from Europe and your story made me wonder about them and appreciate what they must have experienced so that my parents and I and now my children get to enjoy the privileged lives we do every single day. So a huge thanks for enlightening me about your very special Grandfather. I now appreciate and am grateful to all the special Grandparents who lived similar hardships and sacrificed so much for future generations.
    Elliott

    1. Hello Elliott

      A big thank you for your comments and reflections – so very beautifully articulated. Your words resonate deeply, touching the heart which is what great stories are about.

      One of the most famous movies, Titanic (1997), directed by James Cameron, has an update that includes early Chinese immigrants. This may be of interest to you/anyone with a passion for genealogy , historical research, and travels to different parts of the world in an effort to bring past knowledge to the forefront. In the 2025 book and 2021 film, entitled, ‘The Six’, author and award-winning documentary film-maker, Steven Schwankert, outlines the fascinating discoveries made about the six Chinese sailors who survived the Titanic’s sinking. Who knew that the famous scene with Jack and Rosie (played by Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet) was inspired by the historical information about the Chinese man found floating on a wooden door?

      May your deep dive into your grandparents’ lives bring forth knowledge, connection, illumination, appreciation, and gratitude. Best wishes to you as you embark on a potential adventure of a lifetime – to learn about your grandparents.

      Thank you once again for your heartfelt comments. Judy

  9. Judy, your “labor of love” warmly shines through in every word you’ve penned in this story. Thank you for sharing. Wishing you much success as you continue to explore and find new discoveries in your ancestry search.

    1. Greetings Michaela

      Thank you kindly for your comments. I truly value the recognition of ancestral/family history research as a “labor of love”. For me, this commitment is borne out of a deep personal passion, an enjoyment in the exploration of my roots, and affection. One thing I learned early on is that the already time-consuming investigation can lead me down disorienting rabbit holes. I can come out scratching and shaking my head, However, the intrinsic rewards of discovery, however small, include:

      *a greater sense of understanding of the lives of past generations;
      *a stronger sense of connection to family members of the past;
      * and, an enriched extension of my cultural identity threads.

      For me, ancestral research provides a kind of emotional and psychological payoff. Such are the priceless gifts that money can’t buy. Fingers crossed, I, along with countless others who embark on this journey will discover more!

      Best wishes to you. With much appreciation, Judy

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